Adventure at Fifty Plus

Posted on September 28, 2010 by phoenixr

My timing sucks! That I have known for a long long time. I married and became a mother when girls my age were dating, studying and building a career. That is another matter that I did all that too … after getting married and having Kid#1.

As you grow older, you stop having adventures. May be it is because you get wiser and stop trying to break walls, and burn bridges. At a certain age adventure means eating butter chicken and butter naan for dinner and (wonders of wonders) having a good night’s sleep!!! Or that you sat in a car that your younger son was driving without wearing a seat belt and did not back seat drive.

Well, apparently Godji has a wicked wicked sense of humor when it comes to me. Yesterday I had a grand adventure. I was in office having a routine Monday. During the course of the day, I went chasing a file. My cabin is on the first floor and I took the lift to the ground floor. The damn lift got stuck.

I suffer from claustrophobia and vertigo …. and my son is a pilot. Godji and his weird sense of humor!

Well, to say I freaked would be an understatement. The admin housekeeper prized the lift door open at the first floor and dangled an arm in, thinking he could pull me up. Hellooo! I am a plus sized Punjaban. The only thing he could have pulled up was my arm from its socket! Naturally I screamed expletives I refused as politely as I could under the circumstances.

Somehow they activated the emergency mechanism and the lift went to the ground floor. I tumbled out, sat on the sofa in the reception and drank gallons of water. Then I hauled me up and walked up the stairs to my cabin.

On the way I saw the housekeeper and his minions tying ropes to a cane armchair which they were planning to lower into the lift to airlift me. G.R.O.A.N. !!!!

I gave up any semblance of doing work and came home.

Once home, I told my first born, the tender fruit of my womb, the boy I birthed and nurtured, even breastfed, the horrors that had befallen me.

Well, he laughed until tears fell.

Kid#1 (on his mobile to Kid#2) : Oye come downstairs, Mom is home, you gotta hear her story!

Kid#2 : Down in my room in a jiffy : Tell tell!!

So I repeated my sorry tale to the apple of my eye, my baby …

Kid#2 : ROFL, was the rope strong enough, did you check? And who would haul you? They’d need some pehelwaans.

Me : Go away guys, I better sleep this off!

Both : Bet she will start taking the stairs, after all its only one floor!

Humph!

Khadda Bakheda Ho Gayo

Posted on September 26, 2009 by phoenixr

I learnt this new phrase today! My driver hails from Haryana or as they pronounce it Hari-yana. He normally has cds of Aarati and Mahamrityunjaya playing in the morning when he ferries me to work. I think he deems them suitable for females my age.

Today he had a rather naughty cd of Haryanavi songs playing. I found them better than Om Jay Jagdish etc. I know, I have bad Godless taste! But the songs were too much! You had one musical one about a youth lusting over his Chachi and serenading her with evil intent declared. You had one about a saali trying to woo her Jija, and the Jija rejecting her and advising her to cool down. The Jija exasperated sings in chorus ……..

KHADDA BAKHEDA HO GAYO!!!!!

Must say I have started my day with a bang

On popular demand, I am attempting to translate the phrase :

Khada = Standing

Bakheda = Problem

Ho Gayo = Happened

So it would mean that a problem has arisen …..

Dammit the punch is missing!!!! Lost in Translation I think

My New Mantra “I Love My Job”

Posted on July 8, 2009 by phoenixr

I LOVE MY JOB

This is even funnier when you realize it’s real! Next time you have a bad day at work think of this guy.

Rob is a commercial saturation diver for Global Divers in Louisiana . He performs underwater repairs on offshore drilling rigs. Below is an E-mail he sent to his sister.

She then sent it to radio station 103.2 on FM dial in Ft. Wayne , Indiana , who was sponsoring a worst job experience contest.

Needless to say, she won.

Hi Sue,

Just another note from your bottom-dwelling brother.

Last week I had a bad day at the office. I know you’ve been feeling down lately at work, so I thought I would share my dilemma with you to make you realize it’s not so bad after all.

Before I can tell you what happened to me, I first must bore you with a few technicalities of my job.

As you know, my office lies at the bottom of the sea. I wear a suit to the office. It’s a wet suit. This time of year the water is quite cool. So what we do to keep warm is this: We have a diesel powered industrial water heater. This $20,000 piece of equipment sucks the water out of the sea. It heats it to a delightful temperature.

It then pumps it down to the diver through a garden hose, which is taped to the air hose. Now this sounds like a darn good plan, and I’ve used it several times with no complaints. What I do, when I get to the bottom and start working, is take the hose and stuff it down the back of my wet suit. This floods my whole suit with warm water. It’s like working in a Jacuzzi.

Everything was going well until all of a sudden, my butt started to itch. So, of course, I scratched it. This only made things worse. Within a few seconds my butt started to burn. I pulled the hose out from my back, but the damage was done.

In agony I realized what had happened. The hot water machine had sucked up a jellyfish and pumped it into my suit. Now, since I don’t have any hair on my back, the jellyfish couldn’t stick to it.

However, the crack of my butt was not as fortunate. When I scratched what I thought was an itch, I was actually grinding the jellyfish into the crack of my butt.

I informed the dive supervisor of my dilemma over the communicator. His instructions were unclear due to the fact that he, along with five other divers, were all laughing hysterically. Needless to say I aborted the dive.

I was instructed to make three agonizing in-water decompression stops totaling thirty-five minutes before I could reach the surface to begin my chamber dry decompression. When I arrived at the surface, I was wearing nothing but my brass helmet.

As I climbed out of the water, the medic, with tears of laughter running down his face, handed me a tube of cream and told me to rub it on my butt as soon as I got in the chamber. The cream put the fire out, but I couldn’t poop for two days because my butt was swollen shut.

So, next time you’re having a bad day at work, think about how much worse it would be if you had a jellyfish shoved up your butt.

Now repeat to yourself, ‘I love my job, I love my job, I love my job.’ Now whenever you have a bad day, ask yourself, is this a jellyfish bad day? May you NEVER have a jellyfish bad day!!!!!

NOW ALL YOU GOOD PEOPLE OUT THERE REPEAT AFTER ME

I LOVE MY JOB

Conversation of Boss/Employee Kind

Posted on May 29, 2009 by phoenixr

Boss : I have to go to XDFR on Sunday, want to fly back in the evening

Self : With starry eyed vision of spending a day in a/c ambience unsupervised by boss : Sir the flight in the morning is at 7 am, and that means you have to reach airport at 5 am. Why dont you catch the afternoon flight? You can easily stay the night and come back on Monday ….

Boss : Almost falling for it : 5 a.m. on Sunday is too early

Self : Hopefully twitching the bait : Yes sir, its too early. Aap araam se jayen na, by the afternoon flight

Boss : Deep thought

Self : Breath held in hopeful anticipation

Boss : Picking up phone and instructing secretary : Book the 7 am ticket for XDFR and send Mr. PO*&%9 in

Self : ????!!!!

Boss : Smirking : Let him go and attend the meeting. I will sleep at home

Self : Walking out in a funk kicking myself

Darn, sometimes I get too ahead of myself! Now he will rest on Sunday and be fully energetic and raring to eat us all Monday onwards

Dammit

The best marketing gimmick – works even in the recession

Posted on March 18, 2009 by phoenixr

All around there is doom and gloom. People are getting laid off … confidence is in shambles. I decided to look for inspiration from spiritual gurus. You know how the average Asian mind works

Problem in life —-> Run to Guru/Jyotish/Mom ——> They have direct connection with God

I believe in God – Yes I do, but somehow I do not feel the need of a link up or a middle man between me and my God

And got enlightened – not quite the way I thought I would

Thank you Aastha Chanel. I owe you one

Read the rest here at Associated Content

My boss thinks I am Google

Posted on January 20, 2009 by phoenixr

My boss aka Mogambo sauntered into my cabin around lunch time, holding an invitation card. I look up from my sandwich and stop surfing the net

Mogambo : Do you know where MG Road is?

Me : No, I dont

Mogambo : Irritated shrug : Kuch pata bhi hota hai?

Walks off. I mutter “Thank you for ruining my lunch break” and continue surfing the net

He walks in 15 mins later

Mogambo : Had lunch? (This niceness is suspect, I think it is because he wants to be nice about screwing up my lunch – not that he spoiled it any way Humph!)

Me : Polite smile : Yes, tell me?

Mogambo : When is the Obama thing being televised?

Me : I dont know

Mogambo : Office aate hi kyon ho? Do you even know what is happening in the office?

Me : Excuse Me?????? Is Obama joining our company?

Mogambo hastily exits my room!

I start searching Google for MG Road and Obama

I am supposed to be the General Manager Costing for Exports

Go figure!!!!!!

Anitcipatory Retirement Blues

Posted on October 13, 2008 by phoenixr

What can I say, here I was, walking the air nicely like the cartoon network character I talk about when I came upon this post and plummetted downwards AAAIIIIIIEEEEEEE. I am totally freaked out – am reminded of ex’s caustic remark when I was home for a long period on maternity leave. He told me ever so sweetly “Get yourself a job – any job. Dammit I’ll pay your employer salary to keep you busy”. All I did was clean his cupboard and give away all his old clothes. Oh yeah, I also fumigated the entire house, cleaned the kitchen etc etc. The thing is – I’ve got to keep busy. I can not sit and do nothing at a stretch. It makes me bitchy and temperamental. I also like earning money (who doesnt heh!) and being independent.

I think that this so-called retirement concept is total bullshit. A mother never retires and neither does a housewife – and they do more laborious stuff than a normal office worker. Even actors dont retire, they become Moms and Dads and such like stuff. So why should we?

In our culture, age is respected. Greying hair and daughter in laws/grandchildren give us the aura of wisdom (never mind if we colour our hair and go ahead and blog about boobs and wrestling heh!) I feel that we should be given a chance to work until we are ready to call quits. Of course I have no retirement plans or funds (I never plan) though I have a vague idea of packing bags and baggage and moving to Punjab or Kasauli or someplace cheaper and more friendly than the NCR.

I have seen how the elderly live in the NCR. Its a lonely life and its boring. Get up early, go for a walk, bring milk for the family. Then go to the temple, spend time there, come back with vegetables from the vendor. Then sit and read the newspaper, watch television, while away time. Then its lunch. After lunch, take a nap, wake up and spend time with grandchildren (if the grandchild is in the mood to spend time with you), then evening walk in the park, come back home. More television and then sleep. I guess it would kill me, if retirement did not. I think life in a smaller town or a village would be better – where life is slow and people are more approachable.

I am not even talking about money – I have this belief that if you are educated, you can look after your own needs. No one ever could make enough to fulfill the greeds any way – so why get into that. It is things like the fear of being redundant, being irrelevant and lonely that are scaring me. For many years, I have been at the helm, both at office and at home and this is a feeling that is new to me.

I would welcome inputs from others reading this blog …… what does one do when your employer thinks that you are old and do not have to work, and your family has grown up and does not need you? How is one to cope with being sidelined after being on centrestage for such a long time?

Anticipatory Retirement Blues

Posted on October 13, 2008 by phoenixr

Growing old is mandatory, growing up …. optional

Posted on July 11, 2008 by phoenixritu

So another year gone by, and another set of wrinkles to contend with …. sigh!!! The sad part is that the inner me simply refuses to believe that I have grown old become middle aged. Dammit, I refuse to grow old gracefully how so ever much my sons and dil would like me to act my age. I do not know how women my age are supposed to act like – so I guess we have a big big problem. I can not relate to saas bahu serials or the Aastha Chanel. News is okay sometimes … I like watching WWE and ogling at chocolate boy heroes. The only time I am reminded of the fact that I’ll never see 45 again is when my darling boys remind me of it – spoil sports. Cant imagine why I carried them for 9 months each, and then toilet trained them. Should have left them to rot in their soiled diapers.

I dont mind growing old – as if I’ll stop ageing if I mind heh? In my mind’s eye I still look somewhere around 25, so I get a shock when I see my photos. It is like OMG – I cant believe this is me. I guess I better start accepting that this is what I look like, and get it over with. But I still have a lot of life left in me. So I cant sit tamely and embroider or make achars or do whatever women my age are supposed to do.

What is with every one in this youth centric world? Just because a woman reaches a certain age, they start acting as though she can not exert herself or even look after her self outside the kitchen. I went into the office loo and as soon as I locked the door, the darn handle came off in my hand. So I did what any sensible person in my position would do … I finished my business, and then tried to re-attach the handle so that I could walk out. No such luck. So I rang up the housekeeper and explained my predicament. Once he understood what had happened, he was much amused and told me to stay put while he unscrewed the lock. I waited for about 5 minutes and then rang him up again. …….

Me : Sumerji, kya hua

Him : Madamjee, hum ladeej bathroom ke bahar hi hain. Abhi wait kariye (accompanied by many male giggles)

Shit, I wonder, how many people are outside – dont they have work to do???

Well the tone of his voice was so irritating that I took matters in my own hand. I opened the window and tried to climb out into the balcony. As luck would have it, my shoe fell off my foot inside the bathroom. I was standing in the window sill trying to decide whether to jump out regardless … or jump back into the bathroom barefoot (horrors!!!) when the lock got unscrewed and door opened. The man walks in (he is older than me by at least two years) and starts scolding me “Aap ladeej log najuk hote ho. Aap ko is umar mein aise kaam nahin karne chahiye. Your bones will crack or you will hurt yourself somehow!!!” The Haryanavi MCP to the core!! I somehow manage to smile, hop in on one foot, quickly slip the other into the darn shoe and walk out thanking him with poor grace.

Excuse me, I am not NAJUK. I grew up with a whole lot of brothers, real and cousin, and was known to terrorise the entire lot of them and have defeated them many times in boyish games. That was then and this is now I guess …

I can soooo empathise with this lovely quote:

“I refuse to admit I’m more than fifty-two, even if that does make my sons illegitimate” Nancy Astor

Party Time

Posted on May 14, 2008 by phoenixritu

Last Wednesday there was a party at the boss’s house (palace). Ever wonder why official parties are so …… painful???? You have this classy venue, beautifully decorated, exotic cuisine, expensive booze, but one really has to be soooo prim and propah!!!!!

His Highness and his family were being so nice and gracious doing the rounds. Once I had met the guests I knew, I settled down to my favorite pastime, drinking and watching others. It is such fun.

Friends of His Highness and family were keeping to their sorts (rich and famous) the women checking out every one else’s clothes and jewellery, men checking out every woman’s figure……the union leaders wolfing down the food and drinks as though they had been starving for the last millennium. The lower rung employees happily getting drunk stationed either near the bar or the loo. Then there is us ::::: “the inner circle” or “chamchas”, depending on whether we are in earshot or out of it. We smiled our hellojis and namasteys cordially and then hung around with each other politely. We definitely could not get happily drunk, we certainly did not want to talk shop – and we have precious little else in common. I got rid of them soon and joined Kid#2 and D.I.L.

Of course Kid#2 had got us a lovely table close to the bar. It really is an art There we proceeded to drink seriously. I kid you not, since the Angel of Joy could not be everywhere, God gave us booze. 3 glasses of wine and D.I.L. started missing her husband aka Kid#1. She got emotional and sleepy (don’t ask me how she managed to do that) and had to be dropped home. Kid#2 took her home and I managed to get myself 2 LITs and a whole lot of snacks…….

Of course after all that I needed to visit the washroom. Since I know the palace very well, I walked inside hoping to find an unoccupied loo. No such luck. So I sat down on a sofa in one of the rooms waiting for the loo door to open. I was quite happy, I had my glass in my hand and was watching the party from the French windows and the loo opened and out came one very senior person I know accompanied by his subordinate’s wife. I think for me the party began right then!!!! Till then it was an official do in which I had to be present. I gave them a happy drunk smile, and they smiled guiltily hoping that what I had seen had not registered. So I spared them further embarrassment and rushed into the washroom and came out – finished my LIT. I swear to God till then I was just buzzing. Then I got rollickingly drunk – and it was not my fault. It was the fault of my imagination and the couple that I had witnessed.

By the time Kid#2 came back to the party, I think I could not even walk straight. He had dinner and I had an Irish Coffee. It was a miracle that I could walk straight, and wish the royalty goodnight and thank them for the wonderful party. We were served cigars at the party and we smuggled some home with us. Once home, I let my hair down lit a cigar and started singing “Mauja hi mauja” and doing bhangra in the front yard. Poor Kid#2, he was so annoyed!!!! Two drunk women is a bit much to handle for him. Aaaah kiddo, you’ll learn. Consider this good practice for the rest of your life.

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